Money Slavering or Financial Slavery: a typically male fantasy

Money Slavering or Financial Slavery: a typically male fantasy

Since the fashion for chic porn 10 years ago, sex has become a marketing product, a product of scandal, a product that like fashion collections evolves every year. After strippers and bachelorette parties for young girls, after the fashion for swingers, the fashion for sextoys, after the fashion for sadomasochism, then the fashion for escort girls, today comes the “money slavering” trend : translate “financial slavery”.

What about money slavering?

There are more and more “money slavering” internet sites and blogs aimed at “men who like to give money to women who like to receive it”. As on sado-masochist sites, the nicknames of these women mostly start with capital letters to mark their superiority, and go from “Princess” to “Queen”, not including “Lady”, “Lady”, “Miss” and same “Goddess”.
The principle of money slavering responds to gynarchy, a word whose Greek etymology combines “woman” and “power”, a philosophy for some that was established in 1967 with the work of Valerie Solanas, an American feminist intellectual.
On the internet, and in real life, these women are enthroned all powerful. They are 20 or 50 years old, are students or stay-at-home mothers, and they profit from the gifts of their “pigeons” – as they openly call them – without offering any sexual counterpart. Like Julie *, for example, who explains being “just capricious, loving gifts, and believing that if men are stupid enough to make offerings to strangers, she would be even dumber than them not to take advantage of it”. In front of them, many men lacking in self-confidence, men like Jérome * who says he is “shy, with the physique of a troll”, and believing that it is a way for him “to satisfy a woman, failing to be able to satisfy her sexually “.

“you suggest, I’ll take this”?

In practice, how do these money mistresses manage to be paid for their very existence? Via Paypal accounts of course, wish lists, vouchers on sites selling quilts, waders, or flat screens, and for more intimate moneyslaves, cash orders. Money orders, an honor for these men who want to submit since they go hand in hand with the address of their “mistress”, an undeniable proof of confidence. Some men even go so far as to entrust these women, sometimes virtual, with the management of their bank account, or even, entrust them with personal or professional information ranging from the address and name of their wife, to the client list and contact details of their boss. A way to prove their devotion, to put themselves in danger. All in exchange for what? From a few non-porn minutes on their webcam, to a picture of the “goddess” with her new gift, or just a text. The sums paid can reach 2000 € per month.

Far from the stereotypes of dominas dressed in leather, a whip in hand, the money mistresses do not hesitate to admit that they have a cold or to pose with their cat. An attitude that suits money Slaves who don’t expect sex from these women, just attentions. Gift tips that they can, for example, read on certain blogs, in the form of pop-ups with explicit content, “winter is not over: heating € 75, electricity € 60”, etc. Many of these young women, like Elise *, a student, in a relationship, dissatisfied with men in general, believe “that after all, money slavering is as decent (and less restrictive) than being a housewife”.
The ads posted on specialized sites are moreover unambiguous: “Hello, you gang of larvae. I am currently opening my herd to welcome new slaves at my feet. […] Places are limited, and only the most devoted slaves will keep their places. To have the happiness of serving me and being at my feet, the requested information is: first name, age, sex, and monthly income, as well as a short text explaining your motivations. Your life comes down to me, and I alone control your life. My feet will be your reward. “. With such announcements, the money slaves answer bluntly:” Man 49 years old, white, 1m81, 75kg, very submissive looking for a black Mistress 18 to 30 years old, beautiful, sexy, proud, arrogant and aware of its superiority for money slavery, use of my credit card for internet purchases for example, contribution of money, distribution plans, etc … in exchange for insults, spitting in the mouth, slaps, humiliations of all kinds, etc. . ”

Money slavering has therefore become a new trend. A phenomenon that even inspired a clip broadcast on YouTube, a song that has accumulated more than 100,000 views. The author, Yeliz, sings “where are my boloss?” “; “Boloss” a term originally used by dealers to refer to a “scammed customer”. Excerpts from lyrics: “You know that you are not appreciated for you, but for what you have […] you suggest, I take advantage of it”.
A refrain that is reminiscent of “the man proposes, the woman disposes”. Money slavering, a game of seduction, money and power; a game which seems to be of particular interest to younger and younger girls; a new phenomenon in which young girls of North African origins find particular interest.

When racism steps in.

The principle of money slavering attracts a good number of young girls of North African origin who express themselves without complex on their origins, their religion, and are proud of it. Proud to the point of making it a selling point, a reason to claim and obtain donations. Donations that certain “white” men are happy, see relieved, to make to them. ‘exploit, strip me regularly. I pay and I obey by crashing down like a shitty white room ”; a vision shared by other men who have “a weakness” for black or Arab women, and who think that “France, and therefore (them), must help its women whose anger, and demands are legitimate “. A feeling confirmed on the web by the testimony of this man in his thirties, who regrets nothing of his experience, quite the contrary: “At 2:00 am, almost insomniac and yet tired […] PB- 93 quickly takes the ascendancy over the discussion making me understand what she sincerely thinks of boloss, small cefran burgers, chalk faces, khaba (“whore”). […] I feel completely humiliated , ashamed of my origins. […] At the end of more than 45 minutes of invective, an enormous spleen seizes me and I lower my guard […] I dictate to him the figures of my bank card. Subsequently, PB93 asked me if I thought that “my daron would be easy to screw up” because […] she is sure that a 66 year old cefran, who has never traveled in outside his native Auvergne is inevitably a dirty racist and that he deserves to be “fucked” by a very young guy. Then she came to tell me that she was going to convert me when she was ligion by making me repeat unfamiliar words with spicy sounds, in the end confessing to me that what I had just repeated already committed me morally to follow new precepts for me. “. A story appreciated by other young money dom: “I love it !!!! Only an ARAB Girl could force you to give her your credit card numbers. We are superior and born to ruin the dogs!”
An opinion confirmed by a young 21-year-old money mistress who rounded up her sales assistant salary with donations: “Our parents experienced humiliation, the Algerian war, we were then parked in cubes in the city, we were forbidden , today, to our sisters to wear the niqab; French society owes us a lot, society and the French, especially men, owe us all this ”. Fatima * explains that she does not practice money slavering for the sake of revenge, but because it is her “right, and even one of the; especially as it is easy “.
Thus on certain money slavering forums, between two classifieds and presentations of members, we regularly find subjects on racism and Islamophobia. Argued photomontage subjects where the “infidels” are insulted and compared to the “cheitan” (“devil”)
Far from the few women wearing the niqab on French soil, these young princesses of the Thousand and Night still seem to have a bright future ahead of them, some French Slavic money blaming the ambient Islamophobia.

The scam.

But on the web, in the virtual world, behind the photos of exciting women, men sometimes hide. As for example Sébastien *, who admits without difficulty having discovered this “ploy” 3 years ago when he and his partner were unemployed. Very quickly, the couple created several email addresses and Paypal accounts, and for 1 to 2 hours a day on the internet, they would have managed to pay the deposit for their apartment in order to resume a normal life. All while offering, in return, a few faceless photos, a few hours of conversation, and two or three insults on occasion. An “excellent profitability” for this game that he himself describes as “cat and mouse”. A game that sometimes puts some men in danger, going so far as to dig into the joint savings account to be able to satisfy the desires of their princess, to the point that some end up wondering about the limits not to be crossed, and even go as far as ‘to ask for help to deal with their “money slavering addiction”, help to deal with their inability to refuse anything to a dominant woman.
However, according to Maitre Jean Codognès, lawyer at the Perpignan bar, no offense should be noted, no promise, not even sexual, being made. No legal recourse therefore. In addition, voluntarily giving money to a person, without prior verification, could be considered “naivety” quite simply; an indefensible naivety after a certain age ”.

Note that unlike porn, prostitution, escorting, or sadomasochism, where there is a certain parity, men and women can play the same roles, the specificity of money slavering is that there is no woman. giving money to a man just for fun.

* All first names have been changed.

Article published on June 26, 2011 on the Le Post website.

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